Hey all,
Welcome to another great fresh week of the new year. And I find myself right smack in the middle in a new place of growth and quite the transformational challenge. (can you relate?)
I feel this video would be helpful for You to help with your transformation and to catch old “programming” and reconnect to yourself authentically when moving about in the world.
Let me know where this may be happening for you (not just with in-laws) in your new year and see how you can transform outside programming.
(Please remember to leave your thoughts, comments I really love reading them)
Your partner in transformation,
Hillary
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January 10, 2010 at 6:07 pm
Mary
Hilary,
thanks for sharing this info and your experience, CONDITIONING is such a big word for me right now. It became so clear right before SULN and since then the synchronicity in my life has been Amazing but changing the conditioning that goes along with that has been very uncomfortable…Nice to know I have company..LOL.
xoxo
January 10, 2010 at 8:29 pm
hillary
Yes Mary…. When we are in a new situation this is when we are pushed up against our ways of believing…. Great on you and let me know how it is going sweetie.
xo
January 11, 2010 at 7:10 am
Sally
As far as mother-in-laws go, when mine comes to visit, it is a very relaxing event. She last came to visit at the beginning of December and I complimented her! She is such an easy visitor, she will do whatever we all want to do or nothing at all. Just being in our presence is enough. Now, my mother, on the other hand, is exactly the opposite! I am very stressed while she is here. We have to have an agenda, back up plans and some type of house project. AND after about 2-3 days she will get into a fight with one of us. I do not understand why this happens! I try every visit to keep everything calm and balanced and it always ends the same way. I never know when she will strike.
We moved away from both of our families about a year ago to follow the Universes plan and we have never been happier as a couple. I too over this last year have noticed different stressers and most of my responses have been so much better. I feel the conditioning of many of them dropping away but the Mom stress..I don’t know. It took me until New Years weekend to recover from our Christmas visit this year. I even got a cold from it. Advise on how to break this cycle?
January 11, 2010 at 11:09 am
Gena
Morning Sunshine,
Simply delicious message!
“God Bless you” for the sneeze!….and your wisdom!
Your genuine willingness to step back and observe yourself is an amazing way to becoming your own best friend. It’s like visiting yourself out of love. You become your own partner in transformation. Being in love with yourself is like having a cheering squad to help you make things better, thus more happiness!! Cheers for a magical new year!
January 11, 2010 at 2:08 pm
Heather Lindsay
Good morning, Hillary!
Thank you for sharing this. 2010 has already brought plenty of examples of ways we are conditioned, it is nice to have a reminder to be true to yourself and to step back and take another look at what is going on.
As for the attitude that we have about the relationships with mother/daughter-in-laws, my mother-in-law, Tammy and I encounter this strange attitude often. Tammy and I are best friends. Upon our first meeting she gave me a key to her house! Through the years it has progressed to Tammy and I becoming addicted to yoga and in turn take yoga trainings together. We boggle everyones minds when they realize how we are connected. We recently have gone into business together and open our areas first donation-based yoga studio. It is so much fun to share this with her, I can’t imagine having a more like minded business partner.
Hope you have a beautiful day!
Cheers,
Heather
January 12, 2010 at 7:01 am
Ray Davis
Hilary, I appreciate your video post. I think you display wonderful courage and commitment to true self discovery in looking inward while recognizing discomfort during your mother in-law’s visit. How wonderful it is for me to have an opportunity to examine my own habitual reactions. Thank you, Hilary.
January 14, 2010 at 4:56 am
hillary
I love all your sweet words… amazing huh how a bit of shifting allows us to see so much more.. wait till next week.. more unfolding.
blessings,
Hillary
January 24, 2010 at 12:36 am
Aurora
Oh yes, programming…bless you, btw:) *sneeze*
Programmed to manage romantic relationships and not trust that I won’t be abandoned…now, creating the stability and space to trust one and my choices in it…feels free and scary….lots of fear but I know that healing it requires experiencing the fear….:)
January 24, 2010 at 4:32 am
hillary
Yes Aurora! Good to say yes to the fear and letting go of the abandonment – saying no to those old ways and yes to being love. xo